More than any other species, dogs have been bred to live as companions to humans. Successful owner-pet relationships are contingent on learning how to communicate effectively, much like a parent and a small child.
Some dog experts are strictly against using the word “no” during training. However, many are of the mind that establishing a healthy understanding of the concepts of both “yes” and “no” sets the groundwork for a more natural communication style between human and canine.
In truth, there is no right or wrong answer, only preference. But if you do choose to utilize “no” in your training, your tone and attitude will make all the difference.
Make Saying “No” a Positive Experience
The main issue that dog training experts have with the usage of “no” is that it is most often spoken when someone is frustrated or angry with the dog. Therefore, your dog is likely to associate the word with an unpleasant experience. However, there is another way to teach them the concept.
Think of using “no” as a calm, soothing prompt, communicating to your canine that he has not reacted in an appropriate way. By not making it confrontational, your dog is not discouraged, and therefore is more likely to try again.
Distinguishing Between ‘Yes” and “No”
When training your dog, praising their good behavior is of utmost importance. You can teach them to associate an enthusiastic “Yes!” with the behavior you want them to repeat; and a calm, stern “No” with behavior you disapprove of. But both responses can have positive intonations.
Remember, like people, dogs do not respond well to negative reinforcement. It is not the word which causes the negativity, but the tone in which it is communicated.
After Saying “No” to Your Dog
Don’t allow your dog’s wrong response or behavior to change the mood or the tone of your encounter. While communicating your disapproval, keep an even tone. In addition to saying no, you can attribute another consequence to their behavior, such as withholding a treat until they perform correctly.
After you say no and they experience a consequence, encourage them to try again. If the respond properly, make sure they know how happy you are with them.
If you find yourself saying “no” too often, back off for a while. Get down on the floor, and give your dog a few commands which they have mastered, in order to build up their confidence again.
Humans can get quite discouraged when they only hear about the negative things they do, and dogs are no different.
Overall, remember that this is a relationship; and although you are in charge, your dog adores you and is eager to make you happy. If you require some help with obedience training or behavior modification for your dog, don’t give up or get frustrated.
Give the dog trainers at Gulf Coast K9 Dog Training a call – we are here to help.
